Friday, May 14, 2010

Utah Vacation 2010

So I had no idea if I would be making our vacation trip that we had planned to see Omar's family this year since I had just started my job. I was so grateful that Blue Cross let me work extra hard so I could still make the trip. We drove down to Orlando for our flight and after 2 flights we finally made into Salt Lake where it was snowing!!! We picked a horrible weekend for anything but skiing to go to Utah. I feel bad that I really didn't take any pictures of our trip, I guess I decided to give up something this time on the trip.

Thursday:
Grace, Omar's mom, made me some Honduran enchilidas (totally different then mexican enchilidas) which are more like tostadas, sort of. They are wonderful.

One of my best friends, Sarah, just got home from her mission in Poland and I was super excited to see her. We decided that we would go camping together the day that we flew in. It was a blast catching up. We went to this restaraunt Bajio's that I had never been to. It was pretty good and was similar to Cafe Rio. We had this guy name Pedro who made our food and we spoke in Spanish, he thought I told him that my husband and I broke up and he gave us free horchata. When I fixed the confusion he offered us free food if I brought in Omar. Nice guy.

We drove around like crazy trying to find a place to camp and everything said "no camping." So we decided to drive up pleasant grove canyon to camp and as we were driving it was pitch black and the snow was becoming so thick and heavy. I just sort of looked at her and said "Uh you think this is a good idea?" I totally didn't want to get sick. We decided to go camping in her parent's garage. So fun and her mom even made whole wheat waffles for breakfast. It was great to see her family again. I forgot how involved they are with politics - it was really funny talking with them - you have to be very careful about what you say.

Friday:

Sarah dropped me off back home where Omar's brother and our sister-in-law, Megan, and nephew, Jayden, along with Megan's sister, Ashley, had driven in from Arizona while I was camping. We all went to downtown SLC and drove Trax (which oddly enough I had never done before). We didn't go on Temple Square this time as it was freezing outside. We took Trax over to the Gateway Mall which I had never been to before. We shopped around and had hot chocolate.


Later we went over and met 2 of my old mission companions and their significant others and had dinner at Cafe Rio.

Saturday:
Omar's dad drove us all down to Provo where we made a quick DI trip and then went and met 2 of my old roommates for lunch at Noodles & Co. which I had never been to before. It was so great to see Julie and Kelly again and meet Kelly's 2 adorable little girls.

After lunch we went over to the BYU Bookstore where I FINALLY purchased a BYU Alumni license plate holder for the car. Omar even bought a BYU hat.

When we returned that day Omar worked on surround sound he installed for his parents. Later that evening Omar and I had dinner and played games with my cousin Corey, his wife Liz and their adorable new daughter Camrie, as well as my Aunt Pam and Uncle Jerry. It was a ton of fun playing games and of course good food as always. We love getting together with them and will miss them and the rest of the family at the family reunion this summer since we won't be able to make it with our work schedules.


Sunday:
Was a great relaxing day just hanging out at the house with Omar's family.

Monday:
Was our last day. While Omar's parents and Eddie and all of them went to the aquarium, Omar and I went and visited my friend Nikki and her husband and 2 baby girls. We went and ate at Omar's little fav place the Pie Pizzeria and then went over to a frozen yogurt place. It was a great time.

Later that day Omar started going through all of his stuff that is boxed up at his parent's house and somehow I had to find room in our luggage for at least 50 movies, and some of his mission stuff! My husband is crazy - he had a pile of 30 comic books he wanted to add to it to, thank goodness he decided that he was afraid they would get bent during flight and to leave them with his parents still.

In the evening Omar and I as well as Megan and Eddie went on a date night to the movies to see Bounty Hunter.

Tuesday:
We flew out early in the morning to Orlando and got home late that night. All in all it was a nice trip and I am glad that we went.

Monday, April 19, 2010

Goodbye Big Brothers, Hello Blue Cross


So I just finished my first day with the new company that I will be working for...Blue Cross Blue Shield of Florida. I will be their sales representative at the their new Blue center in Jacksonville. I am excited for this change and a new start.
It was really hard for me to completely make this choice as I felt as though I would be abandoning all the hard work that I put into builidng up Clay County and the matches that I have served for the last 2 years at Big Brothers Big Sisters. But this is a wonderful opporunity that I have and I could not pass it up.

I won't be leaving the non-profit sector exactly since Blue Cross Blue Shield is a non-profit. However, I am going back to my roots with working in a retail environment, but will be able to use the insurance license that I have.

One of the hardest things will be just remembering to not answer the phone by saying, "Kate Spilsbury, Big Brothers Big Sisters, how may I help you?" So if you are ever at the St. Johns Town Center, be sure to stop by and say hello. Wish me luck on me new venture...

I was able to attend my last advisory board meeting during my last week at Big Brothers. I loved working with these incredible people! (Janice, Steve, Mindy, Rick, Lee, and Rachel)
There was a little goodbye party for me and 2 other girls (Ansley & Amy) that will be leaving this summer.

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Disney on Ice: 100 years of Magic






So my last activity for Big Brothers Big Sisters before I take my new job at Blue Cross Blue Shield was Disney on Ice. I brought one of my girlfriends, Brianna, that is a maniac about Disney for her first Disney on Ice experience. I thought this year's show was better than last year. Last year the whole second Act was all about Tinkerbell, they were totally advertising for their new release. This year we had better seats and there was more variety in the show. We had a nice time and it was bitter sweet to say goodbye to some of my matches.

Doing Dishes - Fun Times






So one of my new favorite websites is Groupon. It is a site that has great deals on local restaraunts, concerts, activities, etc. For example I bought for $15 a coupon for $45 tandem or single kayak excursion around Amelia Island. They have it available for a TON of cities....check up and sign up to get their daily deals at:
http://www.groupon.com/r/uu1478895
My girlfriends (Nicola, the blond, and Erica, the brunette) and I all signed up and went to "Doing Dishes" where we did our own ceramics. We had a lot of fun together. I decided to make a tear shaped bowl that I could use for serving at my house.

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

We Made it 2 Years!!!


March 8 was our 2 year wedding anniversary. Can you believe it?! We have been together 2 years - time has flown by.

March also happens to be probably one of my busiest working months so we decided to go pretty casual this year and just go to dinner. Who would have thought it would be such an ordeal picking a place. Omar told me that it was his year to pick the restaraunt and I knew he would pick a Brazilian Steakhouse because they have all-you-can-eat meat. So I found online a coupon for $25 off at the Steakhouse, because they tend to be pretty pricey, and called to make reservations for our anniversary. Can you believe it? The one and only day each week they are not open is on Mondays, which happened to be our anniversary day this year.


Omar then was like, "Great...we will just go to an all-you-can eat Japanese/Chinese buffet!" If I didn't like that idea than Golden Corral was the next best choice. You have got to be kidding me...no way was I spending our anniversary at a buffet where people's greasy hands are everywhere.

My friend told me about Roy's which is elegant Hawaiian dining. So we went there. Omar was not such a fan, because he is more about QUANTITY rather than QUALITY. I thought it was delicious.

Ah well...we will try better next year to satisfy both our needs.

Saturday, March 13, 2010

"If ye are prepared ye shall not fear" - Chile's Earthquake

My family has been sending this article around about Chile and I finally read it. It is amazing, I know the Lord can prepare us for turbelence that will come in life. Truly if we are prepared than we should not fear.



Taken from the Meridian Magazine by Lisa Laylock:
Editor’s Note: President Larry Laycock and his wife, Sister Lisa Laycock head the Santiago Chile East Mission and had spent the two weeks prior to the 8.8 earthquake visiting each missionary apartment and preparing them for an earthquake. They brought specific instructions on what to do, supplied water purification bottles for the missionaries, told them how to create a 36-hour kit for emergencies and how to stay in communication should an earthquake strike. They prayed with each missionary and dedicated their apartments. Why? Because of a special experience that alerted them to what was coming. They told their missionaries, “If ye are prepared, ye shall not fear.”

They have 171 full-time proselyting missionaries in this mission.

Special thanks to the Laycocks for allowing Meridian to publish this letter that Sister Laycock sent to her family shortly after the earthquake sharing their remarkable experience of kindness from the Lord. They are in Chile with their son, Landon.

The picture of the missionaries on the cover and in this article were taken at a March 1st gathering. These are post-earthquake smiling faces.

Dear Everyone,

I am writing to let you all know how very grateful we are for your prayers, concern, and love. Please keep praying! We need the Lord's help and guidance in order to do all He would have us do to learn what He would have us learn from this earth quake tragedy, and to minister in the way He would have us minister.

During the past few days, we have witnessed many events which serve to remind us that the Lord is in charge and that as missionaries and members of His church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we are performing His work, and as President Monson teaches, "When we are on the Lord's errand, we are entitled to His help." I want to share with you a few miracles that will help you to understand our profound feelings of gratitude.

When we were set apart for this calling, Elder Scott of the Council of the Twelve Apostles taught us many important lessons. He spoke from personal experience when he was a mission president in Argentina. One message that he shared with us is this: "At times, during your mission, you will be awakened in the middle of the night or the early morning hours with thoughts of specific things you should do for certain missionaries. Do not ignore these thoughts. They are promptings from the Holy Ghost who will communicate with you in the stillness of the night or the peace of the early morning hours. He will speak to you then because that is when you are still enough to hear."

Elder Scott further instructed us to keep a notebook beside our bed so that we could record these precious promptings. He said that by the next morning, we would be likely to forget the promptings if we didn't write them down.

We have been astonished at the fulfillment of Elder Scott's prophetic words. We have received many promptings in the exact manner that Elder Scott described. We are so thankful that Elder Scott taught us how to recognize and act upon these precious promptings. Had he not taught us, we may not have given these promptings the attention they require.

Nearly two-and-one-half weeks ago, I was awakened at around 4:00 AM by just such a prompting. I did not hear a voice, but the thought was as clear as if it had been in the form of spoken words: "There is going to be an earthquake. Prepare your missionaries." I sat up in bed and immediately remembered Elder Scott's counsel. That morning I told Larry what had happened. He immediately set to work organizing our missionaries to prepare for an earthquake.

In talking with our office missionaries to arrange for them to put together a list of everything we would need to prepare...in both Spanish and English...we discovered that the Lord had also let two of our office missionaries know of the possibility of an earthquake (in the form of dreams) and the need to prepare our mission.



We set a goal and arranged our schedule so that we could visit every apartment in the mission to check for safety and to review with our missionaries what to do in case of an earth quake. What a wonderful experience we have had as we have met with them and shared scriptures with them about being spiritually and physically prepared. "...if ye are prepared, ye shall not fear" (D&C 38:30).

We instructed every missionary to have a "go-bag" (36 hour kit). We reviewed our emergency action plan with them of where to go and what to do if they had phone service and in case they did not. We gave everyone a paper with all instructions in English and Spanish, and we reminded them that "this life is the time to prepare to meet God" (Alma 34:32-34). We shared with them our thoughts and feelings about the need for spiritual and physical safety.

Some of them became frightened and asked us if we knew something they didn't know. We smiled and repeated "...if ye are prepared, ye shall not fear." We didn't want to unduly alarm them, but we did want to impress upon them the need to be prepared. We tearfully reminded them of our recent transfer conference where we had shared our feelings about our dear Elder McKay Burrows who was unexpectedly called home in January while serving his mission in Romania...how he was prepared in every way to meet God. We reissued our challenge to "be prepared" in every way. Then we knelt with them in their apartment and dedicated each apartment, asking for a blessing of safety and security to be upon every apartment.

When the earthquake came, we were prepared. We did not experience the panic that many felt. We knew we were prepared. Because of the words of the Lord's chosen Apostle, Elder Scott, we had listened and heeded the quiet, but clear promptings of the Holy Ghost. We were blessed with peace in the midst of chaos. We learned an important lesson: our preparation helped us to avoid panic and fear, but the Lord, in His wisdom, allowed us to experience enough discomfort to know that He has all power. He is in charge. We are nothing without Him. We are dependent upon Him for every breath we take. Only He can save us from death and destruction. He is the way, the truth, and the life. He is our perfect example. If we follow Him, we will be saved through obedience to the laws and ordinances of His Gospel.

As the earthquake became more violent, the mission home groaned and wailed. The power died, so the whole city was black. The windows made a hideous screeching sound, and flying objects banged against swaying walls. The printer/fax machine, books, book ends, and fifty-pound television burst from the entertainment center and crashed to the floor, cabinets emptied, drawers flew open, the refrigerator moved, water sloshed out of the toilets, the floor jolted up and down as we ran across it trying to hold onto the walls to keep from falling down, and the piano toppled over like a small toy. As we made our way to the back yard, I remember thinking, "God is all-powerful. He is our only refuge from this horrible mess." I prayed and prayed for Him to still the earth.

When we reached the back yard, we watched in terror. By the light of the moon we could see the swimming pool water form giant waves and crash out onto the rocks. House and car alarms screamed into the night...some from being crushed by falling debris and others, I guess, from the bizarre movement of the earth. I am not sure if the intense rumbling sounds came from the earth itself or from everything else that was shaking so violently. Finally, it stopped.

When the calm came, we had to sit down because our legs were weak and unstable. My legs stayed wobbly all day and night yesterday. Today the muscles in my legs hurt like I ran a marathon. The aftershocks have been extremely unsettling. Each one begins like the one last night started. We just close our eyes and wait to see if it escalates or dies down. .I have never experienced anything like this!

We were awakened this morning by a very strong after shock. Larry jumped out of bed and yelled, "Welcome to another glorious day in Chile!" We just had to laugh. We moved a mattress into the floor in our bedroom and made Landon sleep in our room. He was in his room with the door locked the night before and we couldn't wake him up. He never locks his door, but he was playing a joke on Larry because every morning Larry wakes him at 5:30 AM for seminary by tickling him unmercifully. So Landon had decided to stop him.

When we couldn't open his door, in the middle of the quake, we thought he was trapped, so we screamed and banged. Landon thought that everything was falling off the walls because we were banging so hard on the door. I think we scared him more than the earthquake did!

Today, we attended a strong ward where Larry was invited to speak. The entire chapel and beyond was filled. People were so humble and so teachable. Larry taught the importance of doing the small things. He taught about Jesus Christ and the opportunity we have to love one another and to share what we have with others.

It was a great blessing for us to be with these beautiful Chilean people. Some have lost their homes...or at least parts of their homes. But they are strong and they want to serve the Lord. He taught of the scripture in Luke 21:11,13 which says, "and great earthquakes shall be in divers places...and it shall turn to you for a testimony." He also welcomed the sweet young woman who was in the congregation with the missionaries...her first time attending church...and then he invited her to be baptized from the pulpit. He asked her to please invite us to her baptism, and she said, "I will." The Lord always knows what His people need.

Landon was reading in Alma 15:17 today. He said, Mom listen to this. This is what is happening here in Chile just like in happened in Ammonihah. The people were humbled and "checked as to the pride of their hearts and began to humble themselves before God, watching and praying continually that they might be delivered from Satan, and from death, and from destruction."



Our hearts are filled to the brim with gratitude for all of the blessings we have received in the Chile Santiago East Mission. We see miracles every day. In the midst of great pain and suffering, we can always find our Savior. He stands with His arms open, pleading for all of us to humble ourselves and come unto Him. He loves us. He invites us to accept His gift...the atonement. He invites us to repent. He wants us to love one another and to serve one another. He wants us to bring our families and those we love to Him. We can do it. We can do all that He asks, no matter how difficult it may seem. "With God all things are possible"

We are having a devotional tomorrow for all of our missionaries to talk about the last week of Christ's life in preparation for Easter. We want to remind our missionaries to teach and preach with increased vigor of Christ. Last Monday in our office meeting, Larry suddenly stopped in the middle, and said, "During the prayer, I had a very strong impression that March 2010 is going to be our best baptizing month we have ever had in this mission."

Now we know why he received that feeling. We are going to prepare to bring many souls to the waters of baptism in March. Please continue to pray for us and for the people of Chile. Please pray for the missionaries to have strength and courage to do all that is being required of them, even in difficult times.

We are so thankful that the tsunami did not turn out badly in Hawaii. Who would ever think that an earthquake in Chile could threaten the shores of Hawaii? Thankfully, the Lord is in charge. He is the one to whom we must turn for refuge from every storm. He has the power to save us.

Editor’s Note:

The letter ends here, but President and Sister Laycock told us:

“We’ve never experienced anything like the earthquake. We have had 90 aftershocks, some stronger than others. Our legs are wobbly. It is a scary feeling to experience an aftershock because it brings back all the feelings we had during the earthquake.

“We love being with our missionaries. Because they were prepared, they were immediately able to turn their attention to helping others. They were never concerned about themselves. They were concerned with those who need help and by mid-morning the day of the earthquake, we were able to dispatch them to help others. We told them to investigate the needs of their neighbors and help in any way they could.

President Laycock noted, “The Spanish translation of Luke 21:13 says that there will be earthquakes in many places, and it will give you the occasion to bear testimony. We met with 10 sisters this morning, and one of them mentioned a neighbor next door whom they always asked if she would have time to speak with them, and she always said no. Yet in the crescendo of the toll of the earthquake, she was speechless with fear and not prepared. When the sisters said, ‘Could we pray with you?’, she answered, ‘I have time to pray with you.’ It opened the door to a teaching opportunity to share the gospel.

President and Sister Laycock said, “Everyone we talk to has been so willing to talk about Christ and God’s power. We’ve been sharing God’s love with them. We are seeing God’s love everywhere. People are reaching out to one another. They are serving one another. The news reports looting. We are seeing a different side. We are seeing people who want to communicate with God, who are sincerely looking for the truth.”

Another Blonde Moment

I went to the doctor the other week for my annual physical and we spoke as usual about one my largest issues and that is my sinuses and allergies. I was given a sample of some nasal spray to try out. I have never been a fan of nasal spray. For 2 weeks each morning I put 2 sprays in each nostril. Occasionally the spray bottle will be covered in liquid when I am finished. Well this morning afterward I went to put the bottle down I thought my bottle broke because the spray top came off. NO - it didn't break, I just had never taken the lid off when I used it. Oh goodness...what did my husband marry?